Is there anything more complex and special?

Who is packed with mystery and wonders

Always with an answer when life is crucial

Before she speaks wisely she ponders.


Indeed, fearfully made

Oh, the Hand that made Woman

Miraculously made to fade

For each day, the beauty ran


Her strength is not seen but felt

Only an ideal soul can feel it

And pierced her heart to melt

That showers upon only who deserve it.


Value her for without a WOMAN

There is no MAN


                                                                                             Written by Jienmun Panmei Malangmei



I don’t believe in Romance

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There are certain times I hold my breath and, pull the tail of my loneliness and asked myself why I fall for you again after those years had gone by. And under the million stars I walked, I imagined and looked amongst the stars to see who would be the one my heart finds happiness with. To be honest I’m happy with you, is beyond my logic.

But sometimes I stand still and thought for a little while questioning if my happiness with you walk on broken glass. Even if I, I’ve prepared for a broken battle. I guess you know the hardest thing in life; to buy the truth from someone and sell it not away. This perhaps is the scariest thing too. And I have set my heart upon the deep to let you buy my truthfulness in a little while you are ready not to sell it away to a passenger. There’s an astonishing thing in you which I can never resist myself from looking at you. YOUR EYES! I will always look at you with my eyes half-shut. I’ve learned to respect your personality and at the time I’ve learned the third way of loving you. You love black and it is some kind of good thing that you let me know. In a day long, talking to you makes me feel like I am on my way to the second day twice. And I wish you could be my mother someday. I hope this doesn’t sound ridiculous.

You are the only woman I think about, after I have walked alone in the evening sunset for a long time.

But please don’t keep smiling at me if you are not to hold me back tight, else I will fall for you deeper when it will be too late to cry for you.

Life is full of Ifs “LifE” and no one knows when the last goodbye is. So, in this short life, why can’t we love someone truly? I have only one heart, one life and one soul. That one thing I’m ready to give you. Your personality is unique and so in return, I want to be a man with a mysterious attitude. If only you will lend me your ear I will whisper you the best ever story everyday differently. To be true every relationship must start with Jesus, respect and discipline. That, it will go well and last long.

Don’t ever bring back the past and make yourself worry. It will only fade away your beauty inside of you. I have asked myself many times why time travels forward but not backward. But time still goes forward and faster. And again I asked why we can remember the past but not the future. Past is long gone so, Don’t think back the things that hurt you. This may sound absurd. But I have already found the way to see my future. Simple! Be changed now.

You are different from all the women I have met. I find your attitude with a gentle way like a fire softly burning in the winter. Your smile makes me happy all day long and your eyes, ouch! Secret.

There’s one secret thing I want to tell you which most women do not know. “SIGH OF A WOMAN”. You will soon know it.

You do not understand me when I say I’m scare. You do not imagine when I say I forgive you. And you do not listen to my silence. Yet, I still admire you. What will you think of me if I don’t speak of how I feel for you but write all the feelings I have for you and act upon you?  It’s beyond my logic and contemplation. If you ask me to choose between Romance and Loneliness, I would choose Loneliness readily. 

I only have to tell you that life is not an entertainment. It is not a fun either. But a mystery. And you are such a mysterious woman who I admire the most. So today is your day to show the world how beautiful your attitude is.

I don’t have to promise you that I will climb the highest mountain or swim across the ocean. I don’t have to lay my fake promises upon you or tell you sweet words to win over your heart. Because I don’t believe in Romance. It is a big liar but I believe in Faithful heart and I’d rather love someone truly in silence than romance. And When I fall for someone, I fall for her with respect, discipline and truth. 

Why do people divorce, break up or flirt? Or does people think these as a way of fashion in relationship? This is some kind of crap. From this point, I say romance is a liar, a crime. I wish divorce, break up and flirt doesn’t ever exist. The best love story is not Romance but Loving someone with faithful heart despite one’s weaknesses and mistakes. Love doesn’t hurt but loving the wrong person does. If we have respect for someone in a relationship, there’s no way to get hurt. If we Have a faithful heart for someone today, the fruit will pass on to our children tomorrow. Stepping into relationship is not a romance but to change someone’s bended attitude, to make someone’s life beautiful and drawing that person to a true life. In fact, it is to change someone’s life. Until I posses the power to change someone’s life, I won’t fall for that person. It’s a matter of choosing right person for soul-mate.  And when I Love you, to Your family, My TRUE respect will always be there. Very true!

Betou, I want to be a simple man yet a tough and unique man and I just love listening to what you say because it makes me happy though I’m not sure for how long you will make me happy. But this, I write to you so that the whole world will know about you and me for years and years and the story will go on even if we go on our own way some day. And I will always cherish these moments with you even when the years goes by.

                          You are uniquely beautiful!


                      Graceson Malangmei

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It’s been many years that I used to think it was weird to call a man beautiful. Because I felt like beautiful was for woman. And now I realised I’m wrong because a man can be called beautiful too.

A handsome man to me is a traditionally good looking guy. But a beautiful man has something different and unique qualities out there about him which are good in the eyes of God.

Most of us have the wrong explaination of the meaning ‘BEAUTIFUL, PRETTY AND HANDSOME’.

Handsome means a guy that he’s good looking. Pretty means attractive in a delicate way without being truly beautiful. And beautiful means pleasing someone’s heart and mind and will never be taken away by age.






Have you ever thought of well dressing to give your respect to God and to the people around you?

Are you making your attire in a fashionable way to come to the church just to attract people? If you love the world, the love of Jesus is not in you. Make your clothes useful to show that you are fearing the Lord.

Why are diamonds, golds and the precious stones, gems found hidden inside the Earth? Or why do we called them ‘precious’? All the valued, precious things are found hidden inside the earth. They are not easily found. But our bodies are much more precious than the diamonds and golds. The precious woman, man, beautiful man and beautiful woman’s body is well covered and hidden safely. A physically attractive woman is also one who dresses modestly

What makes a woman beautiful?

Regardless of how attractive you think yourself to be, the question ought to be “Am I keeping myself to the Word of God?”

A woman might be pretty enough to attract many men but she is only a Doll for those men if she don’t have the beauty of Godly woman.

There are some characters of beautiful woman which I like:

Kindness- Though men look for beauty, that beauty will only lead to strife if it is not accompanied by inward beauty.

I often says, “Good looks will get you a date, but kindness will get you a relationship.”

A kind woman is an attractive woman. Because we know that kindness is the language for the poor, deaf, blind and for the weak. When a woman is kind, the world is in her, others get to experience that warmth, and whether they realize it or not they’re experiencing some of God’s character.

How did this kindness appear? Through the life of Jesus. She have this kindness because She know it is the fruit of the spirit (Galatians 5:22 and 23). A joyful woman…. Men love to see and make women smile.  The ancients used to call this trait “sweetness of temper”. No matter how hard her life is, no matter how worry she is, with whatever she have, a beautiful woman will always be joyful in the Hope she have Jesus. A woman with her patience is the strongest woman in the world. Her patience will contribute the greatest beauty in her whole life.  When she holds her patience, She can even conquer everyone. Because she know patience can even cook a stones.

A humble woman… is the most attractive woman as I came across so far and it will be, even more. When the storm comes, her humbleness will save her and her family as we know “A humble heart is like grass where the storm can never carry her away”. But someone might say if a humble heart is like grass, cows will graze it. Yes, obviously it will.

And see, even if the cow grazed the grasses, it will grow again as new grasses giving the cow fed unlike the tall proud trees which will be taken away by the storm.

A prayerful woman, a helpful woman is a beautiful woman. When a woman reads Bible everyday, her reflection through speech, conduct, morality will be beautiful.

Remember, Godly men will inquire about a woman’s devotional life.  Is the woman daily in her Word and in prayer? A devoted woman is an attractive woman. Have a try! But all men doesn’t like lazy women. Women doesn’t want lazy men. Because laziness is not the quality of a beautiful woman and man. Don’t forget to finish up the daily chores.

Beautiful to God

A truly beautiful woman is not only attractive on the outside and inside, she is also attractive to God. How a woman looks to God is more important than any other quality she possesses because one day her outer beauty will fade and her inner beauty will cease, but the beauty that God sees in her will be important when she stands before Him. Being beautiful to God should be top priority on every woman’s list. When a woman has a gentle and quiet spirit, she is attractive to others and to God.          Proverbs 31: 30 says “Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing, but a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised.”

A beautiful man and woman encourages the broken people, talks about Jesus to every kind of people.

The bible teaches us to be a good encourager. Because the broken people needs us to speak to them about Hope which is found in Jesus. God wants you and me to talk about Jesus wherever we go, to everyone. They are waiting for you and me to talk about Hope. We can invite our friends or we can go to our friends who are battling in pain and broken, we can pray together everywhere, we can read Bible everywhere, anytime. This is the Beautiful being which Jesus wants. When you pray like you have given your everything unto Jesus, there are some different things people see in you. Your speech, your conduct, your faith and your purity as the Bible explains us in the Book of 1 Timothy 4:12 will reflect from you to the people. I don’t condemn the men and women who loosely cover their body or who dress like a celebrity in the church. I simply want to remind you the scripture wriiten in the book of 1 Corinthians 6:19 Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own;”

I was a short- tempered man until I realised the beautiness of a Godly man. I cheated my Parents, I freaked out and screamed when I am not satisfied with my Parents. I sometime beated my sisters when they didn’t come up with my expectation. But what gain do I get doing all these things? Where have my beautiness which Jesus gave me gone?  Friends, do you scream, do you shout at your Parents just in case when they don’t satisfy your needs? Or do you lie to your parents just to get what you need? Do you beat your younger sisters and brothers when they couldn’t understand your expectation? Will God called you a beautiful man when you smoke, when you get drunk? These things are not going to make you BEAUTIFUL but these will make you EVILFUL. All these things are said in the equal manner for the men also.

A beautiful heart and a beautiful mind are found in Jesus when you pray and read your Bible everyday. Let us make ourself a BEAUTIFUL MAN AND WOMAN through Jesus.


Graceson Malangmei


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