It’s been many years that I used to think it was weird to call a man beautiful. Because I felt like beautiful was for woman. And now I realised I’m wrong because a man can be called beautiful too.

A handsome man to me is a traditionally good looking guy. But a beautiful man has something different and unique qualities out there about him which are good in the eyes of God.

Most of us have the wrong explaination of the meaning ‘BEAUTIFUL, PRETTY AND HANDSOME’.

Handsome means a guy that he’s good looking. Pretty means attractive in a delicate way without being truly beautiful. And beautiful means pleasing someone’s heart and mind and will never be taken away by age.






Have you ever thought of well dressing to give your respect to God and to the people around you?

Are you making your attire in a fashionable way to come to the church just to attract people? If you love the world, the love of Jesus is not in you. Make your clothes useful to show that you are fearing the Lord.

Why are diamonds, golds and the precious stones, gems found hidden inside the Earth? Or why do we called them ‘precious’? All the valued, precious things are found hidden inside the earth. They are not easily found. But our bodies are much more precious than the diamonds and golds. The precious woman, man, beautiful man and beautiful woman’s body is well covered and hidden safely. A physically attractive woman is also one who dresses modestly

What makes a woman beautiful?

Regardless of how attractive you think yourself to be, the question ought to be “Am I keeping myself to the Word of God?”

A woman might be pretty enough to attract many men but she is only a Doll for those men if she don’t have the beauty of Godly woman.

There are some characters of beautiful woman which I like:

Kindness- Though men look for beauty, that beauty will only lead to strife if it is not accompanied by inward beauty.

I often says, “Good looks will get you a date, but kindness will get you a relationship.”

A kind woman is an attractive woman. Because we know that kindness is the language for the poor, deaf, blind and for the weak. When a woman is kind, the world is in her, others get to experience that warmth, and whether they realize it or not they’re experiencing some of God’s character.

How did this kindness appear? Through the life of Jesus. She have this kindness because She know it is the fruit of the spirit (Galatians 5:22 and 23). A joyful woman…. Men love to see and make women smile.  The ancients used to call this trait “sweetness of temper”. No matter how hard her life is, no matter how worry she is, with whatever she have, a beautiful woman will always be joyful in the Hope she have Jesus. A woman with her patience is the strongest woman in the world. Her patience will contribute the greatest beauty in her whole life.  When she holds her patience, She can even conquer everyone. Because she know patience can even cook a stones.

A humble woman… is the most attractive woman as I came across so far and it will be, even more. When the storm comes, her humbleness will save her and her family as we know “A humble heart is like grass where the storm can never carry her away”. But someone might say if a humble heart is like grass, cows will graze it. Yes, obviously it will.

And see, even if the cow grazed the grasses, it will grow again as new grasses giving the cow fed unlike the tall proud trees which will be taken away by the storm.

A prayerful woman, a helpful woman is a beautiful woman. When a woman reads Bible everyday, her reflection through speech, conduct, morality will be beautiful.

Remember, Godly men will inquire about a woman’s devotional life.  Is the woman daily in her Word and in prayer? A devoted woman is an attractive woman. Have a try! But all men doesn’t like lazy women. Women doesn’t want lazy men. Because laziness is not the quality of a beautiful woman and man. Don’t forget to finish up the daily chores.

Beautiful to God

A truly beautiful woman is not only attractive on the outside and inside, she is also attractive to God. How a woman looks to God is more important than any other quality she possesses because one day her outer beauty will fade and her inner beauty will cease, but the beauty that God sees in her will be important when she stands before Him. Being beautiful to God should be top priority on every woman’s list. When a woman has a gentle and quiet spirit, she is attractive to others and to God.          Proverbs 31: 30 says “Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing, but a woman who fears the LORD, she shall be praised.”

A beautiful man and woman encourages the broken people, talks about Jesus to every kind of people.

The bible teaches us to be a good encourager. Because the broken people needs us to speak to them about Hope which is found in Jesus. God wants you and me to talk about Jesus wherever we go, to everyone. They are waiting for you and me to talk about Hope. We can invite our friends or we can go to our friends who are battling in pain and broken, we can pray together everywhere, we can read Bible everywhere, anytime. This is the Beautiful being which Jesus wants. When you pray like you have given your everything unto Jesus, there are some different things people see in you. Your speech, your conduct, your faith and your purity as the Bible explains us in the Book of 1 Timothy 4:12 will reflect from you to the people. I don’t condemn the men and women who loosely cover their body or who dress like a celebrity in the church. I simply want to remind you the scripture wriiten in the book of 1 Corinthians 6:19 Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own;”

I was a short- tempered man until I realised the beautiness of a Godly man. I cheated my Parents, I freaked out and screamed when I am not satisfied with my Parents. I sometime beated my sisters when they didn’t come up with my expectation. But what gain do I get doing all these things? Where have my beautiness which Jesus gave me gone?  Friends, do you scream, do you shout at your Parents just in case when they don’t satisfy your needs? Or do you lie to your parents just to get what you need? Do you beat your younger sisters and brothers when they couldn’t understand your expectation? Will God called you a beautiful man when you smoke, when you get drunk? These things are not going to make you BEAUTIFUL but these will make you EVILFUL. All these things are said in the equal manner for the men also.

A beautiful heart and a beautiful mind are found in Jesus when you pray and read your Bible everyday. Let us make ourself a BEAUTIFUL MAN AND WOMAN through Jesus.


Graceson Malangmei



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